I\u2019ve been providing Access to Work support for ADHD business owners for 3.5 years.<\/p>\n
Over the past year, I\u2019ve watched something shift. Renewals coming back slashed. Awards delayed for months. Support that people relied on just\u2026 disappearing.<\/p>\n
And the question I keep hearing, sometimes said out loud, sometimes just sitting underneath everything, is this:<\/p>\n
What do you do when that support goes?<\/strong><\/p>\n When you\u2019re still expected to work, earn, deliver, and cope, but with less help than before.<\/p>\n This isn\u2019t me writing as a policy expert. I\u2019m writing as someone who\u2019s been doing this work, built a business in this space, and is watching people try to make sense of what comes next.<\/p>\n So let\u2019s talk about what actually helps.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re experiencing this, you\u2019re not imagining it.<\/p>\n Access to Work awards are being reduced. Renewals that used to be straightforward are coming back cut down or rejected entirely. Decisions are taking months. People are being left in limbo, unable to plan, constantly bracing for bad news.<\/p>\n For self-employed disabled people, Access to Work wasn\u2019t a bonus. It was often what made working possible in the first place.<\/p>\n The admin support. The coaching. The structure that held everything together while you focused on your actual work.<\/p>\n And now it\u2019s going.<\/p>\n When Access to Work support disappears, people think it\u2019s just about losing help with tasks.<\/p>\n But here\u2019s what actually happens:<\/p>\n Everything lands back in your head. The invoices you need to chase. The emails waiting for replies. The admin that needs doing. The decisions you\u2019re second-guessing.<\/p>\n Your nervous system goes back into constant alert mode. That background hum of \u201cwhat am I forgetting?\u201d returns.<\/p>\n You lose the person who helped you create systems and processes that actually worked for your brain, not some one-size-fits-all approach that never stuck.<\/p>\n You lose the support in mapping ideas into reality. Breaking them down into manageable steps. Making sure your expectations of yourself actually align with time reality, not wishful thinking.<\/p>\n And it doesn\u2019t just affect you. It affects the people around you.<\/p>\n You\u2019re working late into the night, battling that constant feeling of \u201cnot done enough.\u201d Your relationships take the hit. Your health takes the hit. Because without that external support holding the structure, you end up trying to be everything, all at once, alone.<\/p>\n For many ADHD business owners, talking things through out loud isn\u2019t a nice extra. It\u2019s part of how thinking actually works. Ideas don\u2019t arrive fully formed. They take shape as you speak. You work things out mid-sentence.<\/p>\n When that space to verbalise disappears, things stay stuck in loops. Decisions feel heavier. Starting feels harder.<\/p>\n So you\u2019re not just losing practical support. You\u2019re losing a way of processing, regulating, and making sense of work and life.<\/p>\n And that\u2019s exhausting.<\/p>\n I\u2019m going to be really clear about this: I\u2019m not anti-AI. Used well, it can be genuinely helpful.<\/p>\n AI can help you draft emails, organise your thoughts, break tasks down, summarise information, or give you somewhere to put the jumble in your head so you\u2019re not carrying it all alone.<\/p>\n For some self-employed people, that kind of support can reduce friction and save energy.<\/p>\n But AI has limits.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t regulate your nervous system. It doesn\u2019t notice when you\u2019re overwhelmed. It doesn\u2019t help you sense when you\u2019re pushing too hard. It doesn\u2019t hold the emotional weight of money worries, rejection, or burnout.<\/p>\n AI can help with tasks. It can\u2019t replace care.<\/p>\n It can\u2019t replace specialist support where that\u2019s needed, whether that\u2019s coaching, neuro-affirming admin support, mentoring, or having another human alongside you who understands how ADHD, burnout, and fluctuating capacity actually show up in day-to-day working life.<\/p>\n Tools can help. They can\u2019t hold you.<\/p>\n This is what most people default to when support disappears.<\/p>\n You tell yourself you should be able to manage. You work later. You push harder. You operate in urgency because it\u2019s the only way things move.<\/p>\n And for a while, it works. Until it doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n Because running on threat-drive isn\u2019t sustainable. Your confidence starts wobbling. The dropped balls pile up. And slowly, quietly, you start wondering if you\u2019re failing at being a business owner.<\/p>\n You\u2019re not failing. The structure just isn\u2019t holding you.<\/p>\n The hardest part when Access to Work support disappears isn\u2019t just the practical gap. It\u2019s the loss of feeling held.<\/p>\n Being around people who get it makes a real difference. People who understand how ADHD, self-employment, energy dips, admin blocks, and emotional overload actually collide. People you don\u2019t have to explain yourself to.<\/p>\n Sometimes just working quietly alongside other people, knowing you\u2019re not the only one struggling with the same stuck points, is enough to help you take the next small step.<\/p>\n Body doubling isn\u2019t always literal. It\u2019s about creating containers where work actually happens.<\/p>\n This might look like:<\/p>\n Co-working sessions where you\u2019re alongside others (in person or online).<\/p>\n<\/li>\n Accountability partnerships where you check in without pressure.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n Quiet spaces where you can just get on with things without having to mask or perform.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n The key is finding what reduces friction for you, not what you think you should be doing.<\/p>\n Access to Work provided structure. Without it, you need to build some version of that yourself, but lighter and more sustainable.<\/p>\n This might mean:<\/p>\n Weekly planning that\u2019s actually manageable, not aspirational.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n Simple systems for the things that always get stuck (invoicing, follow-ups, admin).<\/p>\n<\/li>\n Regular check-ins with yourself or someone who gets it.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n Small, repeatable structure that holds you without adding more pressure.<\/p>\n Not what you think you should need. What you actually need.<\/p>\n Do you need help with the doing? Or help with the thinking before the doing? Do you need accountability? Or just company while you work? Do you need someone to take things off your plate? Or someone to help you figure out what\u2019s on it?<\/p>\n When you know what you\u2019re actually looking for, it\u2019s easier to find versions of it that doesn\u2019t require government funding.<\/p>\n Community doesn\u2019t replace specialist support where that\u2019s needed. It doesn\u2019t fix systemic issues. It doesn\u2019t magically remove barriers that shouldn\u2019t exist in the first place.<\/p>\n What it can do is reduce isolation, lower emotional load, and make everyday working life feel less impossible.<\/p>\n It can help people keep going, stay connected, and rebuild some of the scaffolding that\u2019s been taken away, even if it looks different to before.<\/p>\n This isn\u2019t about finding a perfect replacement for Access to Work. There probably isn\u2019t one.<\/p>\n It\u2019s about being honest about what helps, what doesn\u2019t, and what simply can\u2019t be replaced.<\/p>\n After 3.5 years of providing 1:1 Access to Work support and with the cuts now showing it\u2019s impact I have started seeing the same pattern.<\/p>\n People weren\u2019t just losing practical help. They were losing the feeling of being held. Of not doing it all alone. Of having someone who understood.<\/p>\n I didn\u2019t want to create another programme full of \u201cshoulds\u201d, targets, or productivity pressure.<\/p>\n I wanted something community-first. A calm space where support comes before solutions, and where getting things done happens gently, not through force.<\/p>\n The ADHD Work Room is:<\/p>\n Ongoing support for the stuff you\u2019ll do literally anything to avoid (follow-ups, invoices, admin that sits there getting heavier).<\/p>\n<\/li>\n Weekly grounding sessions to anchor your week without overwhelm.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n Body doubling sessions where you can just work alongside people who get it.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n Help creating systems and processes that work for your brain, not generic templates that never stick (although if that helps they can be given, but it is your choice no \u2018do it this way\u2019.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n Support mapping ideas into reality and breaking them into manageable steps.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n Making sure your expectations align with time reality, not wishful thinking.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n A space where you don\u2019t have to mask, explain, or perform.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n It\u2019s not a course you race through and forget about. It\u2019s steady, human support that doesn\u2019t depend on government funding.<\/p>\n Because when things are tough, most people don\u2019t need telling what to do. They need safety, understanding, and somewhere to just be.<\/p>\n For many people right now, it starts with this simple thing:<\/p>\n Not doing it all on your own anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you’ve lost Access to Work support, or you’re watching your award get reduced, or you’re just exhausted from holding everything alone, you don’t have to keep doing that.<\/p>\n The ADHD Work Room is here for this. It’s a membership space for ADHD business owners who need steady, human support that doesn’t depend on government funding.<\/p>\n But I’m not interested in pushing anyone into something that might not be right for them. I know how impulsive decisions can happen, especially when you’re overwhelmed and desperate for something to change.<\/p>\n So if you’re not sure whether this would actually support you, just get in touch. We can have a conversation about what you’re dealing with and whether the Work Room makes sense for where you are right now.<\/p>\n No pressure. No FOMO tactics. No urgency countdowns.<\/p>\n Just an honest conversation about what might actually help.<\/p>\n Find out more about the ADHD Work Room here<\/strong><\/a> This isn’t about replacing what you’ve lost. 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\nWhat\u2019s Actually Happening with Access to Work<\/h2>\n
\nThe Real Impact (It\u2019s Not Just Practical)<\/h2>\n
\nWhat People Try First (And Why It\u2019s Not Enough)<\/h2>\n
AI Tools<\/h3>\n
\nTrying to Push Through Alone<\/h3>\n
\nWhat Actually Helps<\/h2>\n
1. Stop Doing This Alone<\/h3>\n
\n2. Find Your Version of Body Doubling<\/h3>\n
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\n3. Rebuild Some Scaffolding (It Won\u2019t Look Like Before)<\/h3>\n
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\n4. Get Really Honest About What You Actually Need<\/h3>\n
\nThe Limits (Let\u2019s Be Honest)<\/h2>\n
\nWhy I Built the ADHD Work Room<\/h2>\n
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\nWhat Next?<\/h2>\n
Not sure? Contact me here<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n